NeedControlling

A little bit about me.
Who am I? Let's explore: while one perspective is kinky, exciting, flashy, fetish… another view is of deep, subtle ripples in my psyche, what makes me tick as a man. So, enjoy the philosophizing mixed in below; without both sides of this the rest is either useless, or meaningless. ;)


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1. What I like doing most of all: having control taken away from me. There are a million ways that can happen, of course, but 
this
one
thing
is the point of almost all of the rest of it for me:

I want to have no choice.
To be helpless.
And for it to be _obvious_ that I can do nothing about it.


***Clear Disclaimer***
I am not talking about genuine kidnapping, or genuine rape.
We need these things first:
- hard limits we *together* understand
- an environment of overall safety *and mutual trust*


All of these are AMAZING for me:
- when I’m physically incapable of moving some part of me, no matter how hard I try
- when I am entirely prevented from speaking, resisting with my mouth and words, "saying no" (see obvious disclaimer above)
- when I am blind, unable to perceive your position, next steps, or devious plans


#1 is the foundation of all the rest. =D


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2. I like tight, shiny clothing. Leather, rubber, some trackies, and other clothing which is relatively (or extremely) tight, all of these things are big turnons for me, all by themselves.

Not only this, but also a more general enjoyment of sensuality: I really like things that enhance the senses, that draw attention to the beautiful, or scary, or breathtaking, or exciting, or whatever else. Things that make it all *feel* more enticing.


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3. Talking about the exchange of power, with me being the one losing it and you being the one using it, what will you do with your control, with your power over me? How will you use my helplessness for your pleasure, your enjoyment?

Here is the essential answer: **whatever, however you want**.

The point of #1 is to enable #3: **use me as you wish.**

As long as you don't abuse my trust, then I am quite happy to be used as you wish, whether I like it or not.

Clarification: I am not specifically asking you to do things that I dislike. 😉


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#4: How to take away my control?

A lot of this depends on you, the day, our moods, our chemistry, etc. Many variations appeal to me.

Whatever seems to work for us, in the moment, I enjoy.


{{ fin }}

FYI:
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